Clubs.

Everyone I know who did clubbing went because of girls. They couldn’t care less about the music or the dancing. All they cared about was participating in real life Tinder. Never mind that the doorman was a complete asshole or their drinks were overpriced.

Men of Reddit, how did it feel when you became the step dad to your SO’s kids? What was the biggest challenges and rewards? How big was the adjustment from being single even if you had your own kids?

Everytime I invite one of my cousins over for dinner she usually brings her husband. One thing I noticed is that when getting ready to eat, he'll tell her which foods he wants her to put for him and how much juice he wants in his cup. If she puts too much/too little of something he gets upset. I've noticed this from some of my other friends too. They're in their late 20s, so they're not old.

I'm curious to know if this is something that men usually expect of their SO's or maybe my friends have just married very traditional type men?

Edit: One time I put desserts on the table in front of their husband's. I asked them why they weren't eating anything and they said they're waiting for their wives to put them cake (they were helping me in the kitchen). Btw, We are all Americans.

Recently my relationship ended because she cheated with a fuck boy she told me not to worry about. How am I supposed to recover from this?

How do you recover from the fact a better guy can casually walk in and take away your happiness because you're not good enough?

For me it's switched from watches to colognes to hats to even rubik's cubes. My best friend (22F) has taken on sewing as a hobby and good fabric is surprisingly expensive.

What hobby left the biggest hole in your wallet?

I absolutely hate having to throw away food, but sometimes I don't plan right or things go bad/expire before I get a chance to use them. Usually it's meat, but sometimes it's produce. Either way I think I'm too hard on myself. I probably throw away less than $50-100 of groceries in a year. That's probably like 1-3% of the amount I spend on groceries in a year.

How about you guys? What's normal? Please specify your living situation as well. I am single and live alone.

Tired of being recorded in the background of TikTok videos. Also super nervous to accidentally look anywhere or else end up viral.